"Should I Stay or Should I go now??"
Confusion in relationship is SO common. And it can eat away at the fiber of our being. keeping us up late at night, making us lose our appetite, or send us into deep depression. Figuring out whether a partner is the right match for us is generally a hard thing to do, but more so when we've already been at it for a while and are still unsure.
But the stakes are a whole lot higher when we've already "taken vows", and especially if there are kids involved!!
A lot of times the challenges in a long-term relationship can feel uber daunting and make us question whether this is actually the person we're meant to be with. This is often seriously exacerbated after having a new experience or new connection that shook us to our core. That could take the form of any number of things from:
Caution: Don't throw the baby out with the bath water.
Just because you've had a powerful experience doesn't mean the person you are in a relationship with isn't right for you, they may not be, but you need to do some serious soul-searching before you make that decision.
I've helped many clients waid through the challenging and murky waters of long-term partnerships to come to the clear waters of their next authentic steps. And you might be surprised by the outcomes. It's not always what it appears to be on the surface, once we take a deeper look, at what's beneath all of this confusing mess.
But the stakes are a whole lot higher when we've already "taken vows", and especially if there are kids involved!!
A lot of times the challenges in a long-term relationship can feel uber daunting and make us question whether this is actually the person we're meant to be with. This is often seriously exacerbated after having a new experience or new connection that shook us to our core. That could take the form of any number of things from:
- Meeting someone else who sparks a new kind of joy, passion, excitement, deep connection, etc. in us
- Cheating on our partner
- Having had an "awakening" experience, after going on retreat, reading a life-changing book, beginning a new spiritual practice, joining a new spiritual community, or even from a really deep meditation
Caution: Don't throw the baby out with the bath water.
Just because you've had a powerful experience doesn't mean the person you are in a relationship with isn't right for you, they may not be, but you need to do some serious soul-searching before you make that decision.
I've helped many clients waid through the challenging and murky waters of long-term partnerships to come to the clear waters of their next authentic steps. And you might be surprised by the outcomes. It's not always what it appears to be on the surface, once we take a deeper look, at what's beneath all of this confusing mess.
**NEW** REAL-ationship ReBoot™ 10-Week Package
Besides session-to-session Coaching I am also offering a new:
REAL-ationship ReBoot™ 10-Week Package which includes
***Book a free 30 intro call during the month of Jan 2021 and get 25% off your 10 Week Package! That’s a savings of $350!
REAL-ationship ReBoot™ 10-Week Package which includes
- Weekly relationship coaching sessions
- Email support in between sessions
- Curated REAL-ationship tool-kit of weekly resources made up of essential readings or videos to support you on your path of personal exploration and healing.
***Book a free 30 intro call during the month of Jan 2021 and get 25% off your 10 Week Package! That’s a savings of $350!